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Finally, acquaintances gradually blend into the endless world of strangers. And depending Mature Ponderay adult chat who you are and how things shook out in those first 25 years, the way your particular mountain looks will vary.
As time goes on, you start to realize that the year frenzy of not-especially-thought-through haphazard friend-making you just did was the critical process of you making most of your lifelong friends.
Possibility 2 is a pretty dark situation for your friend, but it can actually be fun for you. Sometimes the skit is that you both burst out laughing at everything constantly.
This type of person hates earnest people because someone being earnest dares him to come out from under his ironic safety blanket and let the sun touch his face, and no fucking thanks.
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Both of you—go do something. Most old friends fall somewhat into this category, but a true Historical Friend is someone you absolutely would not be friends with if you met them today.
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Anyone within three years of 30 has a bunch of these going on.
Some people have become Future year-olds, while others are super into being year-olds. At some point, things will start to meld together again, but being ish is the friendship equivalent of a kid going through an awkward pubescent stage.
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Someone can want to spend more time with a friend than vice versa. Is one person allowed to be more of a dick to the other than vice versa?
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And when a friendship is both in Quadrant 1 of Is there a good woman in the Virginia beach graph and on Tier 1 of your mountain—that friendship is a rock in your life.
Investing serious time and energy into those is a no-brainer long term life strategy. But in the case of most people over 25—at least in New York—I think A not enough time is carved out as dedicated friend time, and B the time that is carved out is spread too thin, and too evenly, among the Tier 1 and Tier 2 friendships in all four quadrants.
In theory, once this happens, you can go back to just hanging out, shooting the shit, and actually being in the friendship. Most importantly, doing this clears up time to… 2 Dedicate even more time to the Quadrant 1, Tier 1 rocks in your life.
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